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Let's face it, one man's ideal Dom might not be Dom enough for another.

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This way potential Doms can get a sense of whether you guys would play well together in advance. You could go out tonight and find a willing Dom, but who's to say whether you'd be compatible. If you are the type who likes to bottom shame, I bet you totally can’t!

Bottoms come in a variety of shapes, colors and sizes.



These tips are fairly standard, but they're not necessarily universal. Every other word makes it sound like an insult.

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Bottoms are more alpha than you think

By: Kyle in Wyoming

There’s a ridiculous myth floating around that gay men can’t be rugged – particularly guys like me who identify as bottom.

Our interest varies too. I’m a rugged bottom that likes it outdoors – and I’m not ashamed to admit it.

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Tips for new subs on finding a good Dom

from Recon News

06 June 2016

Whether you'd classify yourself as a sub, slave, boy, bottom or another term entirely, one thing is fairly true across the board, finding the right Dom/Master/Sir/top for you isn't always a straightforward process.

Search for someone who shares the same kinks. They need to communicate and listen well, so both of you can share any anxieties or concerns, and so you can feel confident in both expressing your desires and being able to slow things down if you need to.

Ideally, they should respect you and your level of experience.

They are a good basis, though, so keep them in mind when you're on your hunt. You need to do some research, weigh up your options and make sure you're comfortable with any steps you take. Being most often synonymous with a power bottom as the dominant person having more fun in the bottom's position.

A submissive top could also be attributed to a person who looks like a more dominant person; tall, intimidating, strong and other things picture when thinking about dominant people, but their personality is that of a submissive bottom.



A good idea is talking to other subs on Recon who are into the same things as you, asking them what to look for in a Dom, and asking for recommendations in your area. After all, when you reflect upon it, bottoms are the ones who are truly in control when you’re inside.

My name is Kyle and I’m from Wyoming.

It's always a good idea to keep your Recon profile updated when you discover a taste for new things.

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On our site and apps, you can freely read profiles and message Doms – sizing them up in the comfort of your own home. Use Recon

Identifying a good Dom isn't going to happen in the supermarket (though…it has been known), and not everyone can get to fetish and kink clubs regularly. Do you think you are man enough to handle a good, thick 8-inch log drilling through your sphincter?

For that matter, could you handle something massive going deep inside without whimpering like a woosy?