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Being a dom does not equate to being heartless or abusive. These feelings are often a result of societal conditioning and might take time to overcome.
Practice self-compassion and permit yourself to enjoy your role as a dom. Don't underestimate the power of this tender, nurturing part of your dom-sub relationship.
· Open Dialogue: Keep those lines of communication humming like a well-oiled machine.
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How To Be A Good Gay Dom? A Comprehensive Guide
Dive into the world of gay dom-sub relationships.
Whatever you choose, remember to make it authentically you.
Common Challenges and How to Overcome Them
Dealing with Guilt or Anxiety:
This is an understandable feeling–especially if you're a newbie. It is your responsibility as a dom to respect these.
Continual Learning and Growth Opportunities
Just like any other aspect of life, being a gay dom presents innumerable opportunities for learning and growth.
While playing erotic games with homophobic themes won’t eradicate homophobia from the earth (wouldn’t it be nice if it could?), a gay guy who consents to this kind of “abuse” gets to decide when it starts and when it stops.
“If ALPHA’s problem is ‘confusion’—a concern that maybe he’s not fully straight—that’s something neither of us can help him with, as that problem boils down to a foundational debate on what it means to be queer,” said Cheves.
Be open. Did she call 911? You maintain control and keep your sub comfortable and safe.
· Trust: Ah, trust. I like guys who degrade me and call me a faggot, and I don’t much care if this fun part of my sex life comes from latent homophobia in me or the men I play with.”
There’s a big difference between screaming homophobic slurs at someone on the street and seeking out gay men who enjoy what linguist John McWhorter described on my podcast as “theatrical subjugation.” While homophobia unquestionably shaped the desires of the men who find your schtick appealing, ALPHA, you’re not promoting homophobia or justifying homophobic violence.
Remember, you're going for a Goldilocks situation here: not too tight, not too loose, but just right.
· Role-Specific Toys: Whether you're into power exchange, sensory play, or something a little bit kinkier, role-specific toys are your best mates. Like any other relationship, clear communication is key in a gay dom-sub connection.
Lay everything on the table.
Verbally dominant and flexible with massive muscled arms and a hairy chest, Trevor was a last-minute booking who seems to fit naturally into his role. Conversations with other doms could also provide much-needed support and reassurance.
Navigating Disagreements or Miscommunications:
Like any other relationship, disagreements or miscommunications can occur in a dom-sub dynamic.
They should feel free to express any discomfort or boundaries. Also, her former massage therapist is already out of work, GOODLORD, as some other readers pointed out. Perhaps it was the total lack of empathy for her “very close friend” (sorry I can’t help myself) who has also suffered in this, even if it was a consequence of his mistake.—Getting Outraged Over Dumbass Letter On Rainy Day
People are allowed to have a WTF moment when something blindsides them—and RUBBED sounded blindsided—but I agree that she’s overreacting.
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· Responsibility: Being a dom means you're in control.